Avoiding "HELL-atio" 101 (aka How To Blow Him AWAY!) - A Salacious Manual...

Avoiding "HELL-atio" 101 (aka How To Blow Him AWAY!) - A Salacious Manual...

In the spirit of love (and lovemaking...LOL!), Salacious thought she'd give you gals a few pointers on how to orally make this year one that your man will remember for years to come! Girls ask me all the time for advice and to teach them how to please a man sexually, when the truth is...fellatio is something that you have to have a passion for. I attended a forum not too long ago that had me shaking my head because I realized that my girls out there need help! They don't know what the hell they doing and are leaving these poor brothers unsatisfied! They are going about oral sex ALL WRONG...and I feel it's my duty to help them escape oral-mediocrity or what I like to call "HELL-atio!" Most girls don't (or can't) successfully please their men orally because they are scared of it, disgusted by it or simply don't desire to do it in the first place. So while I cannot "teach" you ladies how I do what I do as well as I do it, I can give you guys a few pointers so that your next oral venture will have your man's head spinning!

DISCLAIMER: I am not endorsing performing this on everyone you come across (Because not ALL niggas deserve to be blessed!), Salacious just hopes that girls who are in romantic relationships are equipped to please their men! Keep in mind that oral sex is a tool for not only pleasure, but a way to express your love to your mate. And if you are not mature enough to handle the topic and language therein, Salacious WON'T be offended if you choose not to read on! I'm gonna be really frank and REAL throughout this guide...so you've been warned! Enjoy!

Oral sex is an art form, and in an age where sex is deemed as something impersonal, pervasive, and even anonymous at times, oral sex seems to get lost in the shuffle. People are impatient, they want instant gratification, and that seems to most clearly show itself within sex, where the goal seems to be: stick it in and cum, get yourself off, and move on. It's a grand game, with a clandestine scoreboard. Many people define themselves by the QUANTITY of their lovemaking, how many partners, and how many times a week. What they fail to realize is that you can have all the sex you want, but it's almost all masturbation--just getting off, which is something you can do all by yourself--if there isn't some special element, something deeply sensual and satisfying, something transcendent. Otherwise they're all just aimless fucks, one no more special than the other.

The first thing I would tell you is, don't ever do it unless you are into your man and you want to pleasure him deeply. It is an acquired taste, something you not only get used to, but you start to enjoy once you get good at it. The feel of a thick dick in your mouth can be one of the greatest, sexiest (LOL!) and hottest feelings you can have, provided you have yourself in the proper frame of mind. Don't do it otherwise, you'll end up hating the experience, and he'll end up resenting you for it. NEVER let a man force you to do something you don't want to...Unless you can be enthusiastic about it, don't bother. And DON'T be scared of the dick! It ain't gonna bite you gurl...the entire act serves as an opportunity for you to tame and control not only the dick, but the man as well.

If you've talked yourself into it and you want to pleasure him with your mouth, you need to remember that your entire mouth is a sex organ. Not just the lips! Even though part of it involves tightening your lips around his dick and bobbing your head that's not all that oral sex entails...Within your mouth you have a tongue, which if you learn how to use it, can produce a momentous amount of pleasure to your man. Your teeth can bring him pleasure, but PLEASE PROCEED WITH CAUTION! Guys sometimes like it if you nibble softly on the head...BE SURE NOT TO SCRAPE OR GNAW THE PENIS! Remember, it's a POWERFUL (YESSSSSSSSSSSSS! LOL!) but sensitive muscle. Your cheeks should be included on the action, and though a guy might think its hot to see his dick pushed against the inner wall of your cheek, learn to suck them in hard and tight as you suck, giving his dick more to feel, almost like a vagina.

And you have a throat ladies! Don't abandon it...use it! Learn to position yourself so your mouth and esophagus line up, and you can deep throat just like a porn star! Even your gag reflex, if you learn to control it a little and not fear it, can be used for pleasure. I don't have one, but that works to my advantage actually. As you can see, there is much involved in sucking dick than just putting his thing in your mouth. It takes knowing what you have to use and making it work for you.

If you're just learning, though, don't be afraid to use your hand. If done right, your hand can be an extension of your mouth. Lubricate his dick with your mouth and tongue, then tighten your fingers around it and stroke him as you pleasure the head and first two to seven inches of his dick with your mouth and all therein. Don't squeeze too tight; this should be a gliding motion up and down it, from your lips to his pelvis. Guys always ask girls to play with their balls during this time, and you should let your hand go wherever you want it to. But the key idea is pleasure, and your hand, if done right, can be an excellent source of pleasure for you both.

Let your man touch you when you perform on him. This should be a giving experience for both of you, let him caress your face and push your hair from your eyes. A caveat, though, if your man is becoming aggressive, and you are not comfortable, stop what you are doing, do not get yourself hurt, inside or out, just because he is becoming an asshole! Remember, YOU are in control!

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I prefer to have the man sitting, cause when I have them stand they shake and lose their balance! There's nothing wrong with it, because after 2 minutes and 30 seconds (3 minutes tops!) it's over anyway! When you are giving him pleasure, he is vulnerable and weak (If you are doing it right!), and guys hate being vulnerable, especially with a girl. That is why I prefer to make my man comfortable, have him sit or lie down--it lets them know I'm in control.

One thing I always do to make a man cum super hard and fast is look him deep into the eyes. This has nothing to do with technique or dicksucking ability, but it has to do, again with the demolition of the male ego. It's all about body language. If you close your eyes, you might appear to be more into his dick than him...and even if that's true, you don't want HIM to know that! If he closes his eyes, that's a good signal and his body's way of telling you he's enjoying you. But the maintenance of eye contact makes the experience something else. There is something more involved than just a mouth and a dick. There are two souls involved, not just bodies.

By looking at him, you can see not just if you are giving him pleasure, but if it means something more to him than just the act. And there is nothing sexier in the world than a man who will look his woman in the eye while she is pleasuring him or while he is administering the pleasure to her. I was blessed with dark brown eyes, and that seems to mean something dark and almost lustful, as if I were born to suck dick. LOL! And I always use them to my fullest advantage, seductively looking at him as I please him or maybe rolling them back when I deep throat. Your man will never say 'I Love You' more times in rapid succession than when you are looking him in the eye and driving him into a helpless orgasmic frenzy with your mouth. As I always say, "A Man ALWAYS Loves YOU When He's About To Cum!" LOL!

Soft moans on the dick do a couple of things. For one, the vibrations add to the sensation, and he will definitely feel them shoot up his dick into his lower torso. For another--and this is important for a guy--it makes him think you are enjoying the act and even getting off on it. It makes him feel validated, like a real man, its a true ego stroker, when his woman moans for him. Even if it's fake, it is still worth the trouble to moan on it.

ONLY if you trust the man should you let him "fuck your mouth!" Again, this goes back to power roles, so do so only if you're comfortable. I say this because many men like to put their hands on the back of the head and start thrusting their dicks in and out of the mouth. Even though I find that sexy as hell, for beginners it can be both uncomfortable and irritating. If that happens, he might use his dick like a knife, stabbing your mouth and throat instead of finding pleasure in them. I say this all the time, not just in this guide but in conversation, but you don't have to give up control in order to be sexy. You don't have to feel vulnerable or slutty if you don't want to. And don't ever let a man talk shit to you if it makes you feel ashamed, ever! That's not what you signed up for!

However and wherever he cums is up to you. Never give up that decision to him! I'll say it again...You are in control! If you feel strongly about it, don't give in and swallow if you don't want to. In a more intimate setting, it is up to the woman, not the man, in what manner he cums. You've done all the work; the least he can do is just enjoy it and not bark out orders. OKAAAY!

Pay attention, though, to what he does. Keeping your eyes open is not only hot as hell as I've already said, but it keeps you aware. And if you look up and see your man huffing and puffing and moaning, and you feel the cum rise in his dick as you hold it in your throat, you can keep your control. You can pull it out and stroke him to get him off if you don't want to feel his cum in your mouth at all. You can grind your mouth down further on his dick and let him cum down your throat. Some guys like to, (And I don't know why really...LOL!), but they like to jack themselves off at the end and aim the cum into your mouth. I don't find anything sensual in that at all. Always, though, pay attention to what he is doing; he will give you signs of things to come even if he is incapable of speech at that moment...which is usually the case with me. LOL!

Some girls like to put something in their mouths, like vodka or ice, to enhance the pleasure. If I use anything like that, it is ice, because ice is clean, it becomes water fast, and it can be swallowed easily. It also turns from 32 degrees to 98.6 rather fast, so you don't have much time to employ a mouthful of ice shavings. But it does work, in much the same way as if your man runs an ice cube down your neck, between your breasts, down your stomach, and into your pussy on a really hot and steamy evening, and he will be gasping from the very first moment. Beginners should not use any food products, like whipped cream or chocolate sauce...you will most likely gag on it, or it will run out all over your chin and neck...NOT CUTE! LOL!

I hope this helps in your pursuit of giving your man the ultimate pleasure, head, oral sex, whatever you want to call it. I call it 'blessing', and if I do say so myself, I think I am the best you'll ever meet. Maybe there is a harem girl in Arabia somewhere who is better, or a porn star that makes seven figures a year who can see my skills, but I simply don't see it happening babes! And don't think I've told y'all ALL my tricks...cause when it comes to sex, call me Dr. Ruth! LOL! But remember girls to be VERY selective in who you 'bless'! EVERYONE is not worthy of the gift that is oral stimulation and gratification. My hope, though, is that the amazing art of fellatio doesn't die with me, and guys, if I can help your girlfriend to lighten up and give you the best head of your life, then this met its purpose. My sisters, let us band together to right oral wrongs and avoid "HELL-atio" wherever possible! You don't want to be the talk of the campus...because you don't got your "head" on straight! LOL! Good luck girls, let the force be with you...and let Salacious know how it all works out!