Salacious Sex Talk...Intro To Phone Sex - A Salacious Guide...

Salacious Sex Talk...Intro To Phone Sex - A Salacious Guide...

*In my more serious moments, I wonder what Alexander Graham Bell and Sigmund Freud would have said about the erotic phenomenon that has become known as phone sex. I have already shared with you previously some of my salacious secrets when it comes to how to improve or get into the art of fellatio, now I'm gonna tell you how to get into phone sex. Wrote a guide 'bout it, like to read it? Here it go! Enjoy!*

The subject of phone sex requires little introduction - it is simulated sex via telephone in which the goal is to sexually stimulate one or both of the participants and the use of voice is the only human contact it involves.

Firstly there are hundreds of commercial phone sex lines that one can call which cater to every taste and fetish. It's an exceptionally lucrative industry and after working for one and seeing the effects it has on it's male customers, I can understand why. There's always someone out there horny and stroking a rock hard erection while letting his mind wander in search of just the right fantasy to inspire a gut-wrenching, earth shattering orgasm.

Perhaps he's alone and bored with the well-thumbed porn magazines and the same old video fuck scenes. Maybe he wants something different, something wild and kinky, or maybe he simply wants to connect with a willing open-minded partner who will participate in his fantasy while he gets his rocks off. An easy solution is to call a phone sex line and indulge in a few minutes of live facilitated masturbation.

There are few qualifications necessary; a minimum age of eighteen, a healthy libido and the cash/credit card to pay for the call. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with the practice. It's safe, disease-free and an excellent masturbation accessory for many reasons. The biggest advantage being that the caller doesn't have to make small talk, prepare someone, or break the ice. Maybe that's why guys like it so much? LOL! After all, he is in control and decides who to call, when to call, what to talk about, and how long to talk.

When I first started working, I was told that a quality phone sex operator should be well informed and articulate about a wide variety of fantasy subjects including domination, bisexual threesomes or cross dressing. And she should be able to tell stories or graphically describe complicated scenes without being tongue-tied or shocked by callers who request them. Because I was already well-versed in EVERYTHING phone sex (thanks to the Morgan males calling my room phone at all hours and a few old boyfriends! LOL!), I already knew what to do and say to get boys where they needed to go! LOL!

However, contrary to popular belief it's not only men, or women who work on adult phone lines, that participate in phone sex. It also exists in the context of intimate relationships or between lovers who are separated by distance or circumstances. It's the perfect way to have a carnal connection when you and your lover are apart and enables you to merge emotionally, share physical feelings and fantasies and ultimately reach sexual release.

Many people simply add a little anticipation and spice to their love lives by discussing their fantasies and desires over the telephone and masturbating together.

Now, I'm not suggesting that you pick up the phone and talk dirty to the first stranger that answers, but if you have an established mental and sexual rapport with another person it can be a mind blowing and intensely exciting experience that can make the lines sizzle.

Here I do speak from experience and can vouch for the fact that phone sex between people who care about each other or have a strong emotional connection is so much more than talking dirty or a few pants and moans on a phone. It is more like a dance of seduction with the mind and words are the music. Sometimes the music is hot and played with fire like a tango, evoking lust and wantonness and exploding in a climatic ending. The words set the tempo, are scintillating and lusty and can go something like a convo I had yesterday:

So You Think You Can Cum...On The Phone?!?

"I want you girl."

"Mmm, you do? Tell me how much?"

"So much that I'm going to call you as soon as my next break come..."

"Oooh, that sounds delicious. I can't wait baby."

"Uh-huh, me neither. Thinking about you already has me walking around here with a hard dick. Get them fingers ready for me; I'ma call you in 30 minutes."

Click.

28 minutes later. Ring.

"I'm alone."

"You do know that waiting for you like this has made me so wet, don't you?"

"And you have no idea how fucking hard you got this dick. My dick real ready for you. I'm unzipping now. Are you naked?"

"Yeah I am, spread out on my bed with not a stitch on."

"Ohhhh, shit you shouldn'tna told me that shit! And whatchu doing?"

"I've been touching my nipples, they so hard for you, running my fingers over my tummy..."

"And your pussy?"

"No, I wanted to wait for you, baby."

"Mmmm, spread them lips open for me, slide a finger inside dat pussy and play with dat click (he meant clit, but alotta boys for some reason think it's called a click. I didn't correct him...not the right time! LOL!) too."

"This pussy so wet for you boy. My pussy want dat dick so bad..."

"And I want to fuck you so hard. I want to push my dick all the way inside you and fuck dat pussy good."

"Oh shit, Yesss! I'm fingering myself. Mmmm."

"Fuck, this precum coming out for you. I'm smearing it over the tip now and stroking dis dick up and down."

"Mmmmm."

"Do you have your toys there? All of them?

"Mmm yeah I do, with fresh batteries."

"Good because I want you to put one in your pussy. Slide it in for me baby but don't turn it on yet."

"My pussy love dis shit. I'm pushing it in but I wish it was your dick. Ahhh, fuck! It feels so good boy. I wish you could see how my pussy is wrapped around this big muthafucka and how hot it looks with my pussy lips gripping it tight.

"Oh Fuck! Let me hear, baby. Put the phone down there by your pussy and thrust it in and out of dat shit girl. Let me hear how fucking juicy and wet you are..."

Welp, that's enough of that! I think you get the general idea of hot lusty phone talk. Needless to say, it got even hotter before he finally came all over the employee bathroom mirror for me. YESSSSS! Told ya a bitch gots skills! What else can that lead to, but an explosive mind-blowing orgasm?

As with physical lovemaking, sometimes the tempo is more of a waltz; smooth and gliding, seductive and tender. I'm SO on my Dancing With The Stars shit! LOL! It may go something like this:

"I want to kiss you deeply boo and run my hands all over your naked flesh."

"Mmmmm...and I want to run my tongue over your chest, suck on your nipples and lick all the way down to your navel."

"Ah you sound so sexy girl. I wish you could suck on me now. I'd love having your sexy lips wrapped around my dick. Long, deep, slow sucks..."

"I want you so much baby, I wish you were here inside me."

"I am babe. I'm deep inside you and I want to hear you come hard, boo..."

Yes, it's masturbation, but there's no doubt of the connection and the profound intimacy involved. It can be like making tender love or fucking with wild abandonment. That choice lies with you and your partner...It's all up to you!

Phone sex can happen just about anywhere where people have some privacy, but the most important aspect of phone-sex is imagination. If you've never tried it before, you and your partner will need to allow yourselves entry into the world of intimate erotic conversation and fantasy together. And trust me when I say, when done right and with an open mind...you won't regret it!

If you have absolutely no clue on how to get started, try imagining what you've always wanted to do with this person and describe it step by step or share your steamy desires.

Initially some people may feel awkward or tongue-tied and it's best not to try and force yourself to say something vulgar or X-rated that feels or sounds contrived. DON'T! YOU'LL SOUND STUPID! Rather just chat as you normally would and ease into a more intimate exchange by saying something as simple as "I wish you were lying next to me." Or you might want to remind him or her of an incredibly hot session you had together and how horny thinking about it has made you. "Remember when I tasted you in the Science Complex bathroom in between classes before your final presentation? You got that A because of me! It felt so good making you cum..."

You could also explore sexual situations that you have yet to try together in reality. That's bound to get the juices flowing both literally and mentally and you can go from there.

The way you use your voice and the things you utter to each other are triggers that spike and enhance the stimulation, so yes, you do have to be graphic and explicit. Ladies! Be sure to put on ya sexy voice to let him know EXACTLY what time it is. He should be able to know just by that change of tone that it's NASTY TIME! LOL! That's just how it works. And you do need to be comfortable using words that usually turn someone on. GET DIRTY WIT IT BABY! When you fantasize and are getting off alone you don't think of words like "penis" and "vagina." You think of more vivid and SALACIOUS (YESSSSS! LOL!) terms like "big hard dick," or "tight pussy" or "dripping wet cunt." Don't be afraid to say those words. You'll be surprised at how liberating and how arousing it is for both of you. And it will add to the excitement and intensity of the experience if you can just kick back and let yourself go.

Hot, dirty talk gets easier and comes more naturally once you're relaxed and aroused. I don't make this shit up folks...Trust Da Vixen, she'll take ya far! And there is nothing that beats hearing the inflections in the other person's voice, the sound of their breathing changing, the little gasps and moans of pleasure as their excitement grows and their orgasm builds. And ladies, there's NOTHING hotter than hearin' him cum...knowing that YOUR voice and YOUR fantasies brought him to orgasm may cause yours as well!

So, once she begins revealing that she imagines you treating her like a slut, pushing her up against a wall and slowly but forcefully licking and biting her everywhere until you finally thrust your dick inside her, or he reveals that he wants to blindfold you and eat your pussy until his face is dripping wet, I think you'll manage to find your sexual imagination lurking somewhere.

Discussing fantasies is often a huge turn on and are especially intimate and arousing for sharing during phone sex. If your own fantasies don't come to mind in graphic detail, why not ask your partner what their fantasies are? Or if you really want to up the erotic ante and be adventurous, consider sharing your deepest, darkest secret fantasy, which by implication suggests that it's possibly going to be a little over the top and very wild. It's probably also not something you would ever do in reality but is great fantasy fodder for screaming, toe-curling orgasms.

Fantasies can be anything! From pretending to break into their home, making them your sex slave and having forceful rough sex. During phone play a normally conservative lady can become a hot slutty bitch or a whip wielding dominatrix. A married father can be a raunchy bisexual stud enjoying a gang bang or a forty year old can be a high school cheerleader in the locker room.

We all have hidden desires that we may be too reserved to talk directly about with a partner (I don't... :), and yet they really arouse us. With the phone as a go-between it can liberate you to open up mentally and feel comfortable enough to express verbally without fear of judgment. No matter what those fantasies are, you can explore them through the art of slow, seductive conversation, heavy breathing and grunts of pleasure while you touch, finger, stroke yourself or get adventurous with your toys, in such a way that it lets the other person know that not only are you into it, but that it's exciting you to the point of orgasm as well.

There are no boundaries as long as both of you enjoy the conversation and respect each other's comfort zones. The intensity of the experience will depend on how much you are prepared to let go, how far you will allow your imagination to stray and of course how comfortable you are communicating with the person on the other side of the phone. I've had some really intense phone sex encounters where the combination of intimate talk combined with the physical play resulted in some of the most deeply satisfying climaxes and multiple orgasms I've ever had.

So, next time you're thinking of that special someone, feeling horny and can't be with them, remember that there's a phone in every household, hotel, pocket or handbag and a fantasy in every mind. With a little privacy and imagination, you and your partner can enjoy an erotic encounter so vivid, that you can both feel, smell and taste it.

And you don't have to wait for him, or her, to be away to try phone sex. Consider it as a new twist to spice up your sex life and to explore new ideas. Not only will it allow you a joyous excursion into a fantastic mind fuck, but whispering sweet nothings or purring sizzling somethings into the phone can let you get up close and personal at any time of the day or night. Plus, it will let your lover know that they are desired by you and even though you can't be together right at that moment; there is no place that you'd rather be than in their arms and in whatever position you two hold dear.

Well, I hope you've enjoyed your journey into the wonderful wonderful world of sex talk...it has been a pleasure sharing some of my expertise and wisdom on the subject and I wish you all well on your phone sex endeavors! Lemme know how it goes!